Since the time we are born, till the time we adorn this body of ours, one of the major aspects of our life remains RELATIONSHIPS. All kinds of relationships including family, friends, partner, colleagues, official, everything makes and breaks our day, our work, our mood, our beliefs and even our life.
At times this aspect gets so much embroiled in our life that we can’t see or can’t think anything beyond it and it consumes every space in our entire life thus taking away all the space left for other aspects.
We must know and remember that each person we meet and everybody who is associated with us in this life time has had a relationship with us in our earlier incarnations. This fact gives rise to the connections like twin flame, soul mate and karmic relationships.
All our relationships come out of our karma. Either the person has a love cord with us or has an unauthorized cord with us. People who love and adore us have love cords with us but with this the negative attachment cord is also there. It’s because we have lived certain thoughts, beliefs, emotions with the other soul and all these karma is not always full of goodness.
And others who don’t like us, who have always been the reason of pain, sadness and misery in our life, they only have this negative attachment with us.
But whatever be the case, both types are very necessary in our life. Twin Flames are very rare, may be one can be found in a trillion, and mostly we have two kinds of relationships. One is Soul Mate and the other Karmic.
Any relationship starting from your Parents, your siblings, spouse, friends, extended family, colleagues, and acquaintances can fall in these two categories. I have come across Parents who have a Karmic Relationship with their child and they would do everything to push their child down, even harming is one of the aspects.
I have even encountered Parents who would do anything for their child and understands and develops together in life, on earth.
My Master say that if we don’t forgive a person, then that person might be born as a child and the Parents need to learn from this child before they grow further. If they don’t, they get stagnated or even fall down to a lower category other than humans.
Now since I asked many of you, what do you guys want to know about the relationships, and most of you want to have the knowledge of differentiating between them.
So here I am just going to elaborate on the same.
I will first elaborate on Karmic Relationships. Since all the relationships that we live in a particular incarnation is karma bound, so let’s change the name to a better suited one. Karma Manifesting Relationship seems apt to me.
So what is this Karma Manifesting Relationship?
Relationships which involves individuals who harm, incite aggressive, anger, jealousy, frustration and fills the aura with negativity are Karma Manifesting Relationships. These relationships range from parents, siblings, friends and partner (Girlfriend/ Boyfriend/ Wife/ Husband).
How to detect them? First let’s talk about family, parents and siblings. When a child is born to a family, it does not always entail that there will be love bond developed. The child came to the set of parents because Parents needed to develop unconditional and non judgemental love towards all the attributes that this child carried within it. Also, the child needed to learn many responsibilities and other attributes from the family. The same applies to the siblings.
But when the relationship is Karma Manifesting Relationship, then there become two possibilities. The first one is that the parents because they feel love towards the child develops this love and makes a beautiful bond thus negating all the karmic ties and the second possibility which is found in maximum cases of Kali Yuga is that the parents get willowed in more and more ego and keep harming the child.
Here again two possibilities are born and they relate to the Child. This child either like it’s parents start behaving under the ego or moves ahead in life by forgiving the parents continuously. For this the child keep the relationship alive or not is then it’s choice.
There are many incidents where I have seen parents even restoring to black magic for harming their children because their whims and fancies are not met by the child. But I want to give an example of Babaji’s life. Babaji as many of us know is the immortal master of the Himalayas, known as the deathless avatar. He was initiated into Kriya Yoga and became the greatest Siddha. He now also adorns his body and it is said that the body is so pure that there is no shadow cast. He still appears to some high souls adorning this earth at this time. He was born in 203 AD in Tamil Nadu, India. I sight Him here because one incident between Him and His mother states that both were Karmically attached. His mother stuffed Him in his mouth to get suffocated and could have died too. He had some karma attached to His mother which His mother took away by her negative deed.
This is just one incident, but if the parents are in a Karma Manifesting Relationship with their child they can go to any extent if they are too much willowed in the mud of ego.
In the same way the siblings also can give you nightmares only. If there is no respect, no love, no love attachment, then surely the relationship is karmic.
Now we move on to the other most important aspect of relationships and that is our partner. How to know what kind of relationship we are into? There are some very tell tale signs of a Karma Manifesting Relationship in partners. Being in a romantic relationship with someone is very much attached to our growth as these kinda relationship has their way till our inner psyche, our heart. Even between husband and wife the relationship culminates when both of them needs to learn a lot of things from each other. This learning can be full of love or could be marred by the negative energy patterns of karma.
“When someone has a strong intuitive connection, Buddhism suggests that it’s because of karma, some past connection.”
~ Richard Gere
So while arranging if the arrangement is through the family, then either this person will have a soul mate relationship with the family or a Karma Manifesting Relationship with them. In a love marriage the two partners are directly related but again the family of these individuals also gets related with both of them. And thus the Karmic relationship which has been thus is their onus.
So when we seek to find a partner and if we find a lot of similarities, it doesn’t mean that it’s a soul mate. Also if in a relationship the two people are obsessed with each other not giving proper space, then it’s a negative karmic tie which have bound them and not love. In other relationships if the partner is more happier leading different lives then too it’s a sign of Karma Manifesting Relationship. So whenever there is “TOO MUCH” of something it’s Karma Manifesting Relationship.
The other measurement for this kinds of relationship is repeating old patterns. Suppose you don’t like something form the core of your heart and all the relationships that’s manifesting in your life has that particular angle. It not only means Karma Manifesting Relationship but also indicates that there are certain patterns in you that need a change.
Many a times our desperation leads us to Karma Manifesting Relationship. Many people are desperate to get married, desperate to have a girl friend/boyfriend; and when this happens it’s mostly karma that pulls the person towards the dead end.
People however know in a little time that they are living a difficult relationship, because this relationship will have aggression, anger, lack, jealousy, fear and what not. There might be fights on and off or always but when you are not near you crave to be with each other with more force than love. Real love is based on mutual love and admiration, respect and a mind of purity that transcends analysis. Its not that in love there are no clashes, but these clashes help one grow in a loving manner, they don’t pull the individual down to a point of feeling intense negative emotions.
If in a relationship you feel the intensity is too high and the energy of goodness is less then think again before taking it forward.
Many marriages break due to the factor of Karma Manifesting Relationship. And individuals are happy with the break up, but if in the particular Karma Manifesting Relationship the individual has not worked on the areas that he/she needed to then in the future relationships again the same cycle is repeated.
So in some relationships in your life if you see that the foundation is quite detrimental and even when you want to move out and stay away, you are not able to do it then definitely it’s karmic.
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