Many things have been said and written about Soul Mate relationships. But still we know little about it. Because with each person and each relationship we have (the Soul Mate one), we get a new experience.
Yes, Soul Mate is not the only one whom you can marry or live in with. It can be a person from the same gender as yours and can be of different gender. Soul Mates for one person in any incarnation is many or less depending upon the kind of support the Soul/Person needs to grow up. A person can have 5 Soul Mates or more in any incarnation.
They are like chalk and cheese but full of love, respect for each other. Also in these relationships both of them have a lot of trust. Soul Mates have connections with each other from incarnations so there is instant knowing that the relationship is of a Soul Mate one.
In many photos of Soul Mate you will always find a Male and a Female together in a love embrace. What does it mean? Does it show us that only opposite Sex can be Soul Mates? Do Soul Mates have only romantic liaisons?
The answer to all these comes to you when you get introduced to the Soul Mate. Many of us do not even know that we are into one such relationship.
Soul Mates are here to help each other develop and cope with the physical life that they are leading. Male and Female is depicted in a pic because Male means Yang energy and Female depicts Yin energy. Soul Mates balance each other’s Yin-Yang energy. Even if one of your friend of the same sex is your Soul Mate then also, if you look closely you and the person might be having yin or yang energy dominant in both of you. So, that depicts picture of one male and another female in a Soul Mate snap.
Soul Mates are from the same or the opposite Sex. Many a times you fall in love with the person because the person fulfils that which is lacking in you. Soul Mates of different gender can or cannot have a romantic liaison. There is definitely a lot of pull among each other. If we have a same gender Soul Mate then it becomes easy to maintain a highly loving relationship as friend. But, when the person is of the other gender and there is a lot of pull, very few can ignore it.
We must also remember that Soul Mates are here to teach lessons rather than in a loving way. One of the perspectives of Soul Mates which mostly people understands can create issues too in a person’s life. Recently I came across this. Let’s see how?
One person I know is married. They have a loving relationship. At a point of time when there was a lot of transformation going on in this person’s life, he met another female. They were Soul Mates definitely and so slowly and steadily they developed a beautiful bond and this person could feel the pull of Love.
This person was given choices from the Universe. Choosing one will lead to upliftment & another downfall. One way was that he can move to this Soul Mate who entered his life now. Here it does not matter if his spouse is his Soul Mate or not.
The second option will be to lead the same life with his wife and keep a friendly relation with this person. With this beautiful relationships one can learn, but one has to be very careful to keep oneself faithful to the current partner.
So this romantic attraction might be a test thrown by the Universe to this person. If this person takes the right decision, then not only life will be good in this incarnation, but one of his blockages of developing himself will get healed.
But if in any case the route that he took is the second one then the unfulfilled Karma with his current partner will again find him in this or other incarnation in various ways.
My Master always said to keep the faith in /divine and not to cheat on one’s partner. When one cheats there is a lot of bad karma that ensues. Cheating is not only in deed, but also in thoughts and emotions unexpressed.
Soul Mate relations, should definitely be looked forward to in life, not only to create a close bond but to learn and grow from it. They should be dealt with Compassion and Universal Love rather than a narrow roadway to the same.
Also keep a track of the relationships in your life, it might not be a Soul Mate one, but with the right effort at the right place and right time, we can turn them into a Soul Mate one………….
Keep looking for your Soul Mates and keep drawing in inspiration and positive changes required from them. Both of the Soul Mates have Soul Contracts with each other. Let that be fulfilled without adding in complexities………….
And when you feel that the purpose is over, let the person move on as you move on with life. But keep them always near your heart. Because the Love and depth that they can have for each other lasts a lifetime. So whenever in need you can count on them………………
The Signs of true Soul Mate(Including both genders):
- Instant trust
- Instant magnetism
- Connection that you feel is very deep
- Instant lifting of spirit
- No judgments
- Patience & encouragement
- A shoulder to cry on
- There is great equality
- With all the differences, both of you think very much alike, or rather the life values are same
- Sex is optional-never forced or expected
- Gentleness and best friend kinda relationship
- Loves you for YOU not just your physical appearance
Many things might be added to the above. It’s just a broad reference.
Happy Soul Mate tracking, friends 🙂