BEAUTY~ a concept that this world has of the physical looks overlooking the fact of focussing on us. Our body might be termed as beautiful or not so beautiful depending upon the societal norms, the thought process of a group, personal likings of a person and so on and so forth. What is termed as beautiful in the eastern part of the world might not appeal to the society of the middle western region of this Earth. Thus, making things look absurd and comical. It also means that with the mental make-up, tastes differ and so the concept of thinking oneself beautiful or not is actually a misconception or misnomer in true sense.
When we say a person is good, a society is good, a group or a country is good, do we look at the physical structure or it is within them something that appeals? If we think, then mostly it’s the good nature/good behaviour, free mindedness, generosity, the happiness that is exuded and the compassion that is there which are counted. And these qualities don’t change when we talk about a person, group, society, country as a whole. Is this beauty then?
Talking on a micro level, “Beauty” is a concept of emotions that we feel when we see a person, when we feel good, when we feel excited, when we feel peaceful and happy by looking at the person, or at times we can’t even pinpoint why we like a person. So, then we say that the person is beautiful. And strangely enough we never thought on those lines but we always think everything on physical and superficial level.
I with my experience has seen that all these emotions come when we see a good soul, a person who exude goodness, a person who is of good behaviour, who is hassle free and happy and when a person is all of that then the physical feature is of no importance. You might have seen this, when you consider a person physically beautiful but don’t like him/her due to the snobbish nature or jealous nature or other negativity, then you pull out the person from your beauty list. Haven’t you done that ever? All of us do it.
The other most important thing that we empath know immediately when we look at the person despite the persons facial or physical feature is what the person stands for? Does the person is full of negative or worthless attitude or the person is full of happiness and have a positive aura around? We know how the whole of physical features of your body tell us about your heart, your mind. Em-paths have very strong sense which many others lack as they are connected to the heart directly.
Now with the attitude (positive/negative) that you exude, you decide what kind of people you will meet. Some of the people in your life are due to previous karma of previous lifetimes, some are good and some are negative and you can’t do anything about them but bless them and pray for their good everyday. This way they are taking away your bad karma and you are gaining good karma. But the other ones which might be in your professional field, even your friends and acquaintances, your clients and partner all of them you manifest through your attitude. This attitude of yours also decide the patterns of relations you are choosing for oneself. When you analyse you might see that some kind of people enter your life who at the early stages seem good but slowly they too show same kind of issues and pose negativity on you.
Since now the concept of true beauty is cleared, will like to quote a now known truth,
“We are magnets. What we think, say, do attract the same energy to us”
Thus, the concept of true beauty is synonymous to the health of your life and this health comes when you love yourself. Loving yourself is a concept which is interwoven with a fulfilling and happy life and which in turn is conjoined with the beauty in you. This is the BEAUTY NETWORK.
People with lots and lots of insecurity about oneself, doubt and fear, people who don’t believe in oneself are the one who pose the same concept on others. They think that others have this same crumbling mentality as them. They treat others in a bad manner hoping that pulling others down with their behaviour will pull them up. But at the end nothing of that sort happens, as they reap the fruits of their own karma through the bad and nonsupportive behaviour of other people in their life and are left frustrated and depressed. They never pay attention to themselves and the misery continues.
Slowly, you will find that the happiness with success and the peace with relationships have faded and what is left are scars. If by any chance and any good karma, at that time they are reminded themselves of their divinity, of uniqueness and then they work on themselves, provide respect to oneself, there are miraculous chances that they will surely find happiness and life that have/had eluded them.
Take the below questions and find out what are you made up of. If you want to change your life then you must know yourself first.
Happy finding yourself friends.
1. When you wake up in the morning, you
a) Feel good and happy
b) Feel tired
c) Feel frustrated of a new day and old issues
d) Turn to your gadget as there is nothing else worth that
2. When you have breakfast, you
a) Enjoy it and relish it
b) Hardly have time for it
c) Can not sit and have because of issues with others
d) Too busy with you work on mind to pay attention
e) Are working on your phone or laptop
3. When you go out of your home in the morning, you have
a) Smile on face
b) Stressed out look
c) You don’t bother with it
d) A scorn on your forehead
4. When you are on road, you
a) Look forward to go to college/office/work
b) Are thinking about a grungy friend/relative/boss or jealous or menacing friend/relative/colleague/colleagues
c) Are concentrating on the traffic
d) Dragging yourself with lots of issues (personal/professional)
5. When you are in a traffic jam, you
a) Feel like shouting and running away
b) Feel like hitting the other vehicles
c) Talk rubbish and say names
d) Enjoy the song on FM/Phone
e) Take this time to keep yourself calm and work on your anger issues
f) Think about all things gone bad
6. When you get a promotion, you
a) Think about a jealous friends/relatives/colleague/acquaintances and the reaction you will get
b) Think about your family and how to share it with them
c) Expect everyone to feel happy for you
d) Want to make others jealous
e) Feel happy about your competence and pledge to do more good
7) When your friend/relative/colleague/acquaintance gets a lucrative opportunity, you
a) Feel happy but think why you were not given a chance
b) Feel miserable without any reason
c) Criticise and analyse and judge the result
d) Think about all the negative things he/she has done
e) Feel happy and see that the roads to more opportunity is opening
8) When you reach home after a days study/work, you
a) Await when your family will greet you with their smiles
b) Think of the relaxing time you will have
c) Go off to your room without interacting
d) Enter with a happy demeanour
e) Enter with “oh-I-am-so-tired” look
9) When you go off to sleep, you
a) Feel happy about a day well spent
b) Feel miserable as you think many things could have been done
c) Feel too tired to think and plan
d) Think about the good day it will be tomorrow
e) Think about your days work and plan it out for tomorrow
f) Think about all the issues that can happen tomorrow and jeopardise the day
Through this questionnaire you will know which Chakra and which emotion you need to work on, which one of them is posing difficulty/challenges/blockages on your path.
The results to this questionnaire will be provided to people who are willing to change. Please write to me at firstname.lastname@example.org and maintain your secrecy for changing your life.