The Dark Side of a Healer
We are discussing,
What is Healing?
What is “energy-healing”?
Who is a Healer and what do they do?
Principle of Golden Rule in Healing.
Principle of the MIND in healing.
The Dark-Side of a Healer.
Lack-mentality” of “healing” and “healers” & the right mindset.
Let’s talk about Healers and what is the darker side of being one which many of us overlook. This is a controversial session but totally worth it to know and pay heed to.
What is Healing?
Before we start with our first topic, let’s see what qualifications do I have to take up this discussion. I have been working as a Healer since the last 12 yrs., with learning and healing with Reiki, Pranic Healing, Angel Healing, Shamanic Soul practices, tarot and oracle reading and soul-sessions.
I healed my physical disability after my NDE with healing and since then I have been experimenting, discovering & learning this new technique of healing which I use now. I haven’t labeled it yet, but may be soon. Throughout my healing journey I have been able to heal up to 70 -75% of chronic diseases for elderly people, emotional and trauma healing, healing of karmic matrix to lead to the right manifestations.
Now back to our topic, what his healing.
In dictionary, its explained as, “the process of making or becoming sound or healthy again”, the process of becoming well again, especially after a cut or other injury, or of making someone well again, therapeutic.
And that’s what it is. A good Doctor, a physiotherapist, a nurse, a technician, a hardware person, a sweeper, a psychiatrist, a reader, a coach, an energy-worker, a social-worker, a motivational speaker, they are all healers!!!!
Because you see healing ensues on different levels, on different dimensions, in different realities and all that exists within us. To elaborate further a Doctor works with the physical and mental side of things, if they are good ones, a nurse works with the feelings and space side of things along with mental support, a psychiatrist works with the emotional and mental space, an energy worker works with the energy aspects of physical, mental, emotional space and so on and so forth.
If a person’s smile brings you comfort that’s healing, if a person’s goodness and kindness fills your heart, its healing, if someone’s praise helps you feel good and happy, that’s healing. So you see the word healing is as expansive as its works. Healing isn’t a label to be bestowed to any specific and limited course of action or thoughts, but its in innumerable small and big ways of being of assistance to others, to show kindness and compassion, to lead with determined goodness of and for others. If you can support and help through a smile or a crystal healing, then these actions are complementary and similar to each other. And nobody can weigh the which one is more important, the smile or the crystal healing because its not their place to.
What is “energy-healing”?
Having established what “healing” is, lets see what is “energy-healing”, because like the word healing, the energy-healing is widely misconstrued because many “healers” and “teachers” who pinned their lack-mindset and limitations to this ever-expansive and unlimited art &n science of being.
Acc/to Swami Vivekananda, healing happens when the inner-particles of our body is rearranged to release the diseased energy, which can be done by our self or someone else.
Throughout the history of humans from William Walker Atkinson to Mika Usui and Grand Master Choa Kok Sui, every high vibrational being who have created any kind of energy healing discovery has always maintained that we all have that power whether we learn the process or not. So energy-healing is not merely a physical process, but it involves and captures our energy body, our emotional body, our mind body, or karma body enmeshed within all these bodies. So in an energy healing session, it’s not only making your physical presence and life better but its doing so by unearthing and then sweeping away all those emotional and mental disturbances which has caused the physical body to manifest the specific disease/ill-ness/blocks.
It’s not wrong to say that the first thing that an energy-healing targets is the root cause of these diseases, and that’s mostly in our mind and emotional-body, to manifest the healing result in our physical body which is why many a times, you may not feel a lot of difference in your physical discomfort if you have just started the with healing.
Which also brings us to this question, “do healers really heal us”? To answer that and then to talk about this dark-side of a healer let’s go to our next topic.
Who is a Healer?
I’m now going to talk strictly about alternative medicines and people associated with that, and energy-healing. in the dictionary the word “healer” is defined as, “a person who seeks to cure diseases or heal injuries by means other than conventional medical treatment” or “a person or thing that mends or repairs something.”
So a healer is someone who is acting in such a way as to bring relief, cure and alleviate suffering of any kind, and is therapeutic to the helee’, the person seeking the healing.
Energy Healers and people associated with alternative medicine apart from energy-healers do this, but then there’s a vast difference between an energy-healer and someone who is using alternative methods to heal Luther that’s energy like Ayurveda, acupuncture, tapping method etc.
The difference is something that most of the healers, know to be one of the very sacred and inner part of a healers journey. But since many helee’s don’t know about this, and they should as it then brings in better connection and more opportunity to receive the energy better, so let’s talk about openly.
This truth of an energy-healer is that an energy-healer changes the inner-dimensions of the helee’ through their own physical-mental-spiritual bodies. How does that happen? There are 2 very important Universal Principles playing their part in this bargain of a healer and helee’, one of them is the Golden rule of Karma and another is the truth of we being ONE with each-other and the Mind.
The first is the Golden Rule of Karma which is the reason each and every human is here on this plane, to complete one’s karma with each other that’s more like an unfinished business and it’s not about the bad or negative energy, which we’ll talk about in a bit, and to create more of the balance that the Universe seeks through us while following the Golden Rule.
We’ll are here to fulfill our dharma our life-purpose which is the part of our Karma-cycle from previous incarnations and the future when we go into the other incarnations after finishing this life on Earth. We’ve karma-contracts and each healer and hello have them, which talks about the karmic-debts between the healer and the helee’. So, we promised our helee’s to release the karmic-debts we’ve towards them by healing their ailments and releasing their negative karma through the channel of our body, while our helee’s or clients they vowed to release their karmic-debt to us by paying for our healing, by having a healthy respect and love for us and our services and by positive attitude with both words and deeds towards us. Now if we fail in this, as a healer and a helee’ we’re again taking up further karma-debts for us.
Having said that let’s talk about this negative mentality towards a “healer” or being called a “healer” and simply thinking that a healer doesn’t do anything other than raising our vibes.
Just stop there if you see any one writing or saying things to boost your ego or that of a healer too. Healers have power and with that comes a responsibility of raising their power as a channel each day so they can be of more service to this divine plan of bringing balance in others and themselves, and also because they are the carrier or channel of others karma to release and heal them. But if someone is saying that healers don’t do anything, then they don’t know anything about energy or even the Universal Principles, and they don’t know their own mind and karma. And if this limiting mindset is affecting the to-be helee’s or healers in general as now they don’t feel like getting help, then the karma is again carried forward and the chance given to us by our Spirit is lost.
Now the question can be, even if we have karma-debt with each other how can someone else release my karmic-debts and my negativity?
This brings us to our next Universal Principle which is the Mind. In Kybalion we have 7 Universal Principles and really, they are just the Universal-Codes of conduct which we start using them in our life, when we reach that higher ascension.
The code that work with a healer in every setting is that of the MIND and that we’re all ONE, connected to each other or say we ARE EACH OTHER. Because the MIND is one and it IS the whole Universe, everything that it contains.
So when a Healer works with energy they are using themselves as a channel to release yours not-so-good energy so a space for you can be created to call in abundance& fulfillment.
Which is why I always use the term “Awakneing Manifestation” because that’s what healers do. They awaken the manifesting power to a higher notch for you so you can release and call, heal & attract!!!
And this is where we talk about our main topic.
The Dark-Side of a Healer
As a healer, I have met people who love & respect you, have immense gratitude for your presence and this who don’t respect you, and even are jealous of you when you’re the one healing their energy, some are downright disrespectful.
And while as a healer I know that a helee’s goodness and meanness has nothing to do with you, it is also important to mention here that their connection to you will either heal them or create more negative karma for them. And it’s an healer’s responsibility to tell them about it, so whenever there’s a chance of their ego-side to attach itself to you, they are enlightened to know it and seek help and change the emotions.
Having said that I also know there are many healers who are doing nothing but misleading others and have only greed as their motivator, but we’re not talking about them here. We’re speaking of all the healers who work day-in, day-out to help you and support your journey.
So, is it the dark side of a healer?? No, its not, its far more serious and important for every healer to know and act on as fast as possible and as much as possible.
So what do you think happens to a channel when they soak up someone’s energy? Its the same for empathy and everyone who is sensitive, we start to undergo mental and emotional alterations. If the healers powers are not strong, that is if they don’t heal themselves, increase their power with meditations & different rituals on a daily basis, then they tend to fall into the clutches of negative emotions and mindset which they were to release as a channel. Now these start ruling their life and as a healer if you are going through one hardship from another without respite then you need to think about this truth of being one.
Remember your first responsibility is towards you and when you fail to realize that it can have disastrous consequences. As these emotions and belief pile up in your DNA-matrix, they start to distort you reality and even your dharma, which is why many a times healers give up to their healing because they feel life is happening to them but in reality it’s a different story. This is also the reason many healers give up healing entirely as these energies start to affect their unsuspecting family members or partners who aren’t into improving or expanding themselves.
How can a healer become more powerful so that these side-affects are not affecting them in any way?
We’ll self-healing is a must and there’s this immensely powerful self-healing practice that I do whenever I don’t have enough time to sit for an hour for healing, which I have uploaded for your benefit. It’s attached below for your benefit.
You can use healing to heal yourself every day or 3 days in a week and within a month you will not only see marked difference in your energy but also in your power as a healer.
Meditations are also very important here, those kinds which helps you connect with your Higher-Self and exchange energy with them. My kind of healing is more to do with connecting with my angelic power or Cosmic Spirits and asking my higher-self to lead me.
Read books that has the capacity of make you laugh, feel good and stronger rather than lowers anticipation of a fearful thriller or ghost stories, and the same goes for your tv viewership. What are you reading, seeing and listening to have a greater effect than you think?
Healers psyche is special even if in this 3D world we don’t accept it, the principles don’t change for us.
Now to our last part of this topic.
Lack-mentality” of “healing” and “healers” & the right mindset
Healing is a work like many others we use to label different experiences in our life and like so many levels it’s both good and bad.
Good because people who are really into spirituality doing their inner-works or shadow-work and attaining amazing connection to the higher reality, to their Higher-Self quickly understands this vibe that the word holds and are fast in their response. Many of us at the onset of our spiritual journey don’t really understand so many things, but the word “healing” always rings a bell. And just like that we tend to grams it ate towards it. For a start its very good.
In a bad way because people who are too much attached to words and ego, they defend themselves and feed on the zombie mentality by attacking this word, and when we’re going through a tough time in our life looking for salvation, suddenly this restrictive and limiting mentality attracts us as it vibes with our energy, and if we don’t discriminate we have lost another chance to connection to our higher-self.
Take for example, someone going through a horrible relationship situation or financial situation and they feel that they should get a heal from a reader, healer or a coach. But suddenly their ego energy attracts so-called “spiritualists” who are condemning a name, and it sticks to their energy and feels so much right due to it that they forgo their intuitive nudge. Remember that as only a slight voice within us and note loud and condemning.
So “healing” becomes inaccessible to them and the “right time” is gone for at least some months to some years, and because of that the wisdom and required truth that they needed to see is delayed. Their karmic loop keeps on spinning and dishing more issues and them feeling stick and not knowing what to do.
Which is why it’s so important to know a good healer when you see and interact with them, as mainly people who are attracting your attention not by their energy but by appealing to your ego, the success has very low threshold of keeping up for long.
So, enlighten yourself to listen to your intuition and not to your ego’s voice, don’t go by “popularity”, but real work, and always listen to your gut, no matter what!!!
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