Sai Deva has said that whoever we meet in our life has a connection with us and so we should not behave badly with anybody because we don’t know who was the person was to us in any lifetime………..
To understand this statement it’s very important to know the truth that “We are not merely the body, actually we are souls lodged in the body”. Each time we incarnate we choose the body in which we will carry out our Karma. Incarnation happens only when we our Karma is to be fulfilled.
So each and every person we meet or each and every soul we encounter in our present life is actually connected to us. Souls having Karma to fulfill ask the help of other souls. We make Soul Contracts to fulfill our Karma — we call it destiny. Soul does not have negativity, so it is truly said that our true nature is Buddha Nature. It corresponds to the statement that we are souls
utilizing the bodies. Each Soul is pure and loving. When we forget our true nature we start acting under the guidance of EGO. It’s our “false self”, yes, that is what I call the Ego. False Self because, it entwines us in the imaginary world; along with all the kind of illusionary negativity. This falsified truth actually blurs our vision of our true self. And in doing it the Ego is most satisfied.
But when we Souls ponder over our next birth, then a whole group together decides to come down. Now what will happen to the individual Karma. For example: A Soul has to develop the Loving Aspect of God (Parabrahma has three aspects: Intellect, Love & Power) so it needs to learn forgiveness and selfless service………. It is in dilemma how to go about it, so the other souls with it at that point decide that they will incarnate along with it to teach it Love and develop that aspect.
Now to the physical world the Soul takes on a body and is born. The child is always criticized and tormented by the Parents, they dominate in all his decisions, and nothing seems to be going his way as far as his Parents are concerned. So he gets bitter and bitter each day…….. the Parents did not let him pursue his dream in Engineering but somehow this person bags a good job and moves out of his Parents home……… But still the negativity which has been created within him is not ceased, and he is not at all happy even with his success. He gets married to his choice of partner. The wife is also selfish and attention seeker. He is not cared for well and has to tend to himself at all times. He gets more bitter of life and turns to everybody with bitterness. This bitterness brings in more harsh people in his life………..
Somehow one of his friends, a spiritual being introduced him to a Spiritual Life Coach…….. This Life coach asked him to develop selfless love and compassion first. When he first sat for Forgiveness ritual, he started crying and some of his bitterness ceased. After he got result he came back again and again and slowly started developing Selfless love and compassion. He went back to his Parents and brought them back. With in-laws around his wife controlled herself. He gave up looking at others fault and started his life a new with new perspective of Loving kindness and compassion. He slowly brought all into the spiritual realm and in few years time everything got setteled and he started with a healthy life………….
The Parents, the wife here were those Souls who said they will help him develop selfless love & compassion through forgiveness and service. The friend and Life Coach were those souls who wanted to lead him to his true nature……………..
So everything in this Universe is PERFECT, nothing is by chance or bad!!!!!! We just need to change our perspective, be more loving towards everybody, every situation and every circumstance and then things change for sure……………………..
Always remember the truth “We are not the body having spiritual experience, we are Souls having physical experience”